Mental Health Brains: Mentality
Showing posts with label Mentality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mentality. Show all posts
January 03, 2023

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

I am a strong believer that there is nothing more beautiful than life and that beauty comes down to being yourself despite society's opinion. However, I am also an avid person who loves learning and sharing about others and their respective cultures. And it just so happens that when you learn about other people's perspectives then that will naturally have an influence on your own perspective of beauty. So, if there is one thing that I try to live by it is that you should try to see your life as an opportunity to make things better with someone else but in turn, you should always love yourself first. For me, this means that in order for me to be beautiful, I must love myself. There is no way around this for us all to overcome social pressure because we are all looking for approval which makes our lives look very good to many, but for us to truly be "beautiful" we have to live within ourselves first. This is where I get my idea of why Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Although everyone has different opinions, my personal definition is quite simple; it's in the eyes of the beholder. All too often we try to judge others based on our personal beliefs without knowing who they are or even if they are even real people. But when it comes to judging something like a product, you need to understand what type of people will purchase it to understand this concept on its own. Many people buy products because they see them being marketed to people, some people buy these products due to their love and the fact that they do not want to see their skin get damaged or feel inadequate. Some people are influenced by what they see in movies and television shows which makes them believe that they should consume particular types of products. But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect in terms of appearance. We are all human and it does not matter how attractive or beautiful we are at any time. It's not about genetics, looks, or even the color of our skin! If we were born with natural features that were only meant to help us in certain ways then it would be natural and it could be called natural or normal. But it's not natural and people should not care about this as there is nothing wrong with us to be ashamed of! We should not care about what others think of us because it doesn't matter if they're right or wrong. Every single person is different in their own opinions and experiences of life. Whether or not someone likes our style of makeup or the music we listen to is completely up to us! If we were born bad, we were born bad whether because some people think that they are attractive or some are considered ugly. Most of all, we should never be ashamed of ourselves or for how beautiful or how we look because there is no one perfect and sometimes we have to struggle in the process of trying to achieve this ideal. Beauty is in our eyes and it can be achieved by making the most of every situation given in front of us. When your self-confidence is low, you don’t stand up for yourself often. Your self-esteem falls to the point that you will stay in bed with anxiety, depression, or other negative emotions without even intending to do anything about it. You will not ask for advice from doctors or therapists because you may feel that you’re incapable of handling issues like this. This kind of mentality can cause your life, or anyone’s life, to spiral down and the effects can be lifelong. That’s the problem though; we are only meant to live and learn. What we see and hear in movies, television, and throughout our daily lives makes us believe that people will love us. When it comes to reality, we could easily fall into the same trap because it’s easier for someone to say that they are nice and that you are welcome into their home instead of fighting in the streets or doing a lot of work to find out why their friends didn't say thanks to them. Although I said above the worst part of this whole story is that people forget that in the process of saying good things to us they are actually telling us stories about themselves which ultimately affects our perception of them. They forget about the bad side of life and our natural flaws like acne, wrinkles, and other skin problems. As a society, we have created people who are worse off than others who have had much less, people who have experienced poverty as children, and this has led to a lack of understanding amongst those people as well as a general lack of respect towards those who are different. It’s important that we change the way people view us but you shouldn’t let yourself get carried away by false expectations and the media. It takes more than just the media to create a picture of who we are because it could be in the minds, hearts, and bodies of millions of people. People need to know that you are valuable and worthy and that you matter to others and that you are loved. With that being said, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The eyes of the beholder because it is our job to see the world as it really is. How we see the world is up to us so if we don't see the truth then this will lead people to judge us without knowing it. It is important that people are seen as individuals and we can all benefit from looking after ourselves. We need to accept that everything around us is not perfect and that we should take responsibility for what happens to us in life. We don't need to be afraid of our flaws and we shouldn't allow people to make a judgment as to whether or not we are good enough because that doesn't matter unless we are good enough for them (especially if I said that I am going to prove everybody wrong). Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the best way to keep the illusion of reality is through education. It helps us to see the world outside of our own perceptions and beliefs. Learning to see the world as it truly is can mean that we will stop worrying about what other people think of us because we will be accepting the truth and they will only judge us on the basis that we have done what they expect us to do. But it could also mean that people will realize that we are all pretty similar, there are no bad apples among us because we all go through the same struggles, and bad experiences and we have all been in the exact same places at some point in our lives. 

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November 02, 2022

Evil Eyes And Evil Mind

Evil Eyes And Evil Mind

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In brain science, how do you have any idea who can't stand you?

Follow his non-verbal communication while conversing with you and see his eyes on the grounds that the eye uncovers numerous sentiments, assuming he detests you will get away from taking a gander at your eyes more often than not, you can likewise recognize the bogus grin that shows up all the rage, which won't be something other than moving the muscles of the mouth with no sentiments show up on the remainder of the face. He will continuously attempt to baffle you with his recommendation that spotlights your shortcomings, and he will constantly fault you until you assume you are a restricted and detached individual. It will be impacted by words and spread terrible tales about you, and your perspective will continuously go against it, particularly for individuals. He will take a gander at you with envy and estrange from sitting close to you.

There is no unadulterated contempt, however, there are individuals who raise the feeling of dread toward disdain Practically any pessimistic inclination starts with dread or a feeling of danger You could not detect at any point disdain, except if you are available to show your benefits and squeezing the rebate focuses unexpectedly.

Assuming you need to meet him, he will attempt to keep away from you, and assuming that you meet at a functioning gathering or a family meeting, he will attempt to move away from you with his looks and won't give you an equal and attempt to educate him regarding your perspective and your platitude before individuals You feel blissful when he realizes that you are in trouble or pain In the event that you do a decent action word, he will attempt to show it before individuals as a typical or little demonstration and diminish your capacities and abilities, whether in your showdown or from behind you, and he is consistently in endeavors to explore your news, so what he saw from you well, impede it and lessen its worth before individuals and what he saw is terrible. Attempt to spread it and broadcast it.

This is the common individual who detests you. However, in the event that he who detests you is a deceitful sort, this is another sort, may God reward us and you from his disasters Through looks that show the scorn of the other and the repugnance from it, its absence of regard and the longing to demolish it. The virginity is malevolent and persuading and won't let you know that it despises you, so watch the language of his body.

Try not to look favorably upon your face and assuming he did to bamboozle you, it will be counterfeit He feels furious when you sit close to him He begrudges you and enriches you and wishes your disappointment and wishes your effortlessness to vanish and thinks of you as not deserving of it and know from the demeanors of his face Hold your mix-ups to cause torment for you He fears you and doesn't feel for you and escape the hour of misfortune Stay away from acclaim for yourself and take a gander at your eyes When you converse with him, he relates to the people who love them on the telephone and overlook you More than 90 % of disdain is based on desire, jealousy, and scorn. A few disdain you for your benefits and achievement and you will see that Since it will see his face a sensation of awkwardness when you meet you Overlook, disregard, and be quiet to incite your scorn, so the fire eats some of them in the event that you don't find what you eat. Individuals are persuading by concealing the sensations of disdain to make it simpler for them to be outraged and uproariously, particularly the egotists and their turned strategies.

Why disdain is combined with envy?

Since the benefits are a shortage, or a characteristic condition streaming, and in the event that you are in a specific gathering, it shows your benefits blameless ... you will be exposed to stowed away programmed disdain Yet it isn't unadulterated as I said before .... Since it gets back to miss the mark on awful individual ... also, his former relationship with the component To realize it well: Attempt to start an extremely durable companionship with this individual and draw near to him, you will see you like you, however, attempt to stay away from you with feeling ... Why? Since he is anxious about the possibility that we will be straightforward for you ... (like he who abstains from seeing something that disturbs him) Or on the other hand assuming it is adequately valiant, he will do super durable harassing, and his shortcoming will appear to the greater part (and this is the thing most skeptics benefit) With respect to the people who disdain you in view of conviction! (Since he felt the debilitating of his contention inside him, he would audit his safeguards to safeguard them)

From his eyes and grin...

At the point when I talk on any subject, he doesn't gaze straight and attempts to give him distance so he can take solace more when he lies. Anyway, the absence of direct visual correspondence shows no focus on the individual or the subject.

The grin is in many cases dry and made, the genuine grin moves with it every one of the muscles of the face, while the phony moves the region encompassing the mouth just.

Obviously, other instinctive and clear things, like his bliss, when he hears terrible news, and his misery when he hears uplifting news, etc.

May God keep the deceivers from us, who show love and line disdain and scorn. 

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October 18, 2022

Adversity and loss make a man wise

Adversity and loss make a man wise

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Adversity and loss make a man wise

Adversity and loss make a man wise and here are some of their definitions and examples: With a friend's life story, and he has gone through all these circumstances.

On the morning of August 7, 1995, I awoke to a dream. My father had died in that dream. He was one year my junior. Since then, we had gone through many losses; including his death. His funeral was marked by many moving moments, but it is best known for his being there to witness them. The people who knew him said he had always been a hard worker; hardworking and ambitious. But, as the day progressed, one more tragedy struck; he had cancer. This had left us without a parent, a husband, or a friend, and so many things had changed, especially my life. Yet, all this could not stop me. I moved forward, set myself goals, and used the lessons learned by others to move on with my life. If you like this article, please share.

What constitutes adversity?

By definition, adversity refers to situations that cause strong negative emotions such as grief, hurt, sadness, anger, frustration, depression, disappointment, and anxiety among other emotions. By experiencing adversity, an individual must have the skills and capabilities for success to overcome adversity. An adversity event may be experienced at any level of life, from birth to death. Regardless of how adversity occurred, adversity requires no specific skills or experiences. It can also exist in all areas of life. When encountering adversity, an entrepreneur needs to know which action to take. What are the possible outcomes of taking each option: moving forward? Moving away? Taking a different path? In the words of Robbins, “An experience in life is characterized by the use of a choice, and if I choose that course of action, the chances of encountering adversity in subsequent experience are low” (7). There is nothing about adversity that forces someone into inaction, however, adversity itself can sometimes bring an opportunity to change the decision.

Adversity and loss have their own definitions. However, both words should be understood in relation to adversity, though they are similar in meaning. They can be used interchangeably, though in fact adversity is considered as something having no specific outcome, something that provides no sense of accomplishment, as opposed to adversity. Though adversity may not mean poverty, adversity can refer to adversity as a process that makes for change or transformation, which can affect almost every aspect of life, including one’s job. For example, a person may go through a period of hardship whereby they lose their job. As they are applying for new jobs, they realize that their old job will no longer be available for them. After years of hardship, when opportunities arise, they take advantage of them to gain new ones and keep growing. Conversely, in abundant life, a person undergoes adversity but is able to grow stronger in spite of adversity.

Adversity can be viewed as anything that impairs one’s ability to accomplish goals; however, adversity can also refer to things such as hardship, stress, pain, discomfort, failure, mistakes, and obstacles that force one onto making decisions that adversely affect them or make them have to face difficult life choices such as losing friends, family, and career. Adversity can be perceived through social media platforms such as Facebook and Twitter. One of these platforms has a section reserved for ads featuring life-threatening illnesses such as heart disease, chronic pain, diabetes, smoking cessation, thyroid problems, and Alzheimer’s disease (Alzheimer’s.org). These advertisements depict distressful cases and help viewers and readers understand the hardships involved in overcoming illness. While adversity can take form in the same way, its main purpose is survival. Thus, adversity can be viewed as a necessary condition for survival, not only for people facing adversity but also for one undergoing adversity. Although adversity might not necessarily equate to adversity, it’s important to understand what adversity is to understand that its core value is survival. Therefore, adversity must have a positive impact on life. Adversity may result in losses and adversities such as the ones made during a person’s journey through adversity, which can be viewed as setbacks. Both adversities and losses are significant because they lead to growth, which leads to an outcome of greater happiness and overall well-being (Richeson), rather than unhappiness.

How adversity affects your life

Adversity affects everyone and everything in our lives in some way or another. Whether we suffer personal tragedy or adversity, we are affected by one side or another of adversity as we move through it. Adversity takes form in various ways within our lives and throughout the entirety of humanity, but its effect is usually in the shape of loss, or adversity. Whatever the case, each adversity has impacts that touch not just people and individuals who experience adversity, but society. As the saying goes, adversity begets adversity. Indeed, every adversity in life brings up more adversity. No human being has ever attained perfection and all-around goodness without suffering adversity. Adversity and loss make a man wise and its definition and examples include both.

Adversity

Adversity refers to any state of existence where a person is confronted by adversity (Hoffman). We face adversity because adversity can come from external sources such as death, job losses, sickness, and other occurrences that take place out of our control, while internal causes such as poor choices and habits include factors such as the onset of age, health, and relationships. Each kind of adversity has its unique effects. External adversities can range from minor inconveniences to serious events. Indirect adversities, such as witnessing a parent’s death, have immediate effects (Fletcher, 18). Internal causes can vary from minor factors to major problems. Examples of internal adversities include aging and lack of relationships, which can affect an entire community of children.

Advisory Losses

Advisory losses can be any negative experiences that occur as a result of adversity such as poverty, unemployment, mental illness, loneliness, and more. Some aspects of loss that affect many people include financial loss, physical disability, and a host of other adverse incidents. Loneliness occurs when an individual feels less connected to others than they were before. Social isolation can be caused by interpersonal conflicts, and depression is when an individual feels hopeless about their future. Other adverse losses can stem from the losses caused by life circumstances such as homelessness, abuse, trauma, and addiction. Adversity can bring up further losses for adults as well, such as emotional and racial prejudice. Mental illness is also common when experiencing adversity, as mental illnesses are more complex than physical ones and can be influenced by experiences that involve numerous variables.

Adversity And Losses

The word adverse can describe the loss in two ways. First, the term “adverse” implies the opposite of “gains”; losses must always be associated with gains, a paradoxical concept called adversity. Gains can include an improvement in an individual’s abilities, while losses comprise losses of the character, morals, or even feelings that an individual carries (Mallin). Similarly, a loss can include any circumstance that damages a person’s interests, feelings, personality, relationships, or personal qualities (Richeson). Through adversity, we are forced to reexamine ourselves and take action. So, Adversity and loss can act as challenges to our personalities and ourselves.

As the preceding paragraph highlights, adversity takes form in one way or another. Depending on the situation, adversity takes different forms. All adversities may require change, both physically and emotionally, though others would argue that adversity takes only emotional and physical changes. All adversities can take numerous forms. The following is a brief list of the most commonly faced adversities, along with short descriptions.

Physical changes

Physical injury and misfortune are the most frequent types of adversity experienced in childhood and adolescence. Injury to the body or limbs and teeth can occur through falls, car crashes, burns, falls, tornadoes, tornadoes, and more (Sherry). Additional types of adversity include severe burns, fractures, brain damage, respiratory issues, kidney diseases, organ ailments, stroke, amputations, amputations, skin cancers, epilepsy, nerve damage, heart conditions, and much more. Emotional illnesses are a more complicated experience due to several reasons, such as loss of jobs, medical problems, illness, injuries, abusive relationships, and more. Long Term Physical Illness

When dealing with prolonged physical illnesses such as high blood pressure, cancer, and organ ailments, adversity may present as a loss. Sometimes this can encompass any loss in quality of life, including mental illness, sexual orientation, gender identity, and race/ethnic background (Fletcher, 22). Psychological and behavioral adjustments

Adversity often results from psychological changes and behaviors, for instance, depression and anxiety. When enduring depression or anxiety, adversity can result in either decreased social connection or increased isolation – which are different types of adversity (Shirley). Another type of adversity encompasses behavioral changes, such as sleeping disorders and eating disorders (Bartlett). Finally, long-term stress and depression can include physiological changes in the body. Stress in general changes the body’s response to stress, which may eventually increase vulnerability to stress-related illnesses (Hoffmann).

Adverity

Adversity includes hardships from all levels throughout the lifespan. On the surface, adversity can be defined solely by time spent in adversity; however, adversity can also apply to situations such as death, job loss, sickness, violence, sexual abuse, harassment, loss, isolation, loss of friendship, and bullying.

Those who endure adversity in the workplace often develop a different perspective on adversity to work-related situations when compared to those who do not. Unfavorable situations can lead to employees. 

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September 15, 2022

Actions speak louder than words

Actions speak louder than words

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Actions speak louder than words

There exists a phenomenon we often face in our daily life. We often hear people say “Do you want me to do this,” or “Do I need to do that,” etc. But are these statements necessary for our lives? Do they really make us happy and satisfied? Let’s take an example of when someone said “do I know what my dream is” and asked “would you like it if your dream was this exact thing?” to which the answer “no I don’t know what it would be” was given. This question doesn’t even ask the question. It just creates a situation without a clear answer. In most cases, it leads us into doing something and not understanding why we actually do it. Even though doing things may have benefits, the questions are usually wrong at first glance.

The words create confusion because we hear them more from others than we realize, but the action itself seems pointless. That’s why many times we let our ideas go through the air and start living by them. And even after spending time thinking about something, we still end up acting on them as if it were the greatest idea. As one can probably guess, we let ourselves live in fear. Not all of us follow this rule and there are always ways and possibilities to avoid it. But why does it happen? Why does this behavior exist and is it important to change it? The short answer: because it’s easier to find things to do. Here is a list of some actions we do when we talk about our dreams:

You start talking about your dream every day to others. Some days you say something along with what you think would be the best idea at the moment, other days you tell people you would like to talk about it for a while and eventually decide to do it, but the process starts again. So many times we give new things to people who say “we will talk about your dream” to us. They never listen because they are afraid to tell us anything about themselves.

you start talking about yourself and others. You stop talking to everyone because someone changed their mind about your dream and didn’t get to listen to you anymore. Then, they started making things bigger than you and talking behind closed doors. Now you can hear them complaining about the way they feel about you. You will start to believe that everything you do will hurt your future.

when you stop talking about your dream and start believing that everyone has changed their minds about the same thing, you might start to forget how powerful your ability may become from such a small amount of time starting something. If you stop talking and start believing that everything happens for us, then only those who told you not to do so are getting disappointed in you. Only then will people start showing concern for you.

you start hearing people talking behind the camera. You hear lots of stories telling you that others can do it much easier than you. Then maybe you believe you are too old for everything and the story you heard. Or maybe you learned how to manage the situation to stop them and even end up getting upset because they don’t care about the fact that you are in front of a camera and talking to their audience in front of you.

you start going out and watching porn, drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes, and sometimes other things. People start asking you to do things, asking you on dates or asking you through messages or sometimes phone calls asking if you would like to do things.

you start listening every single time you talk about your dream and then start thinking they are crazy. You stop giving advice to others and start trying to help them when they are stuck in situations we don’t even understand yet. When they get stuck and the person they are helping does not show any interest in them, you start feeling sorry for them. One day you ask a friend “what did I do wrong?” and he responds that everything you told him/her was stupid. It makes you feel bad for them, angry and sad. Your friends have no idea how hard it is to get away when you hear things that they shouldn’t hear.

you stop helping others and start focusing on yourself. When you stop helping others and start focusing on yourself, it can feel hard to move forward and do stuff. Especially if it’s something you truly want to do but you don’t know why you shouldn’t do it. Sometimes you say things to people where they have no right to do so, even if they tell you something that is not true or what you don’t know would be better for their own life.

you start comparing everyone else to you and start wondering why you aren’t as successful as them. There are different people around you, different schools of thought, and you start comparing yourself to them and others. When someone tells you it’s not possible, you try to prove it as being a victim or a hopeless fool. You’ll start comparing yourself to other people and maybe even comparing your dreams to theirs more than the person you really want to be.

you start seeing every problem with other people not as problems but as excuses and then start blaming them for it. You start blaming other people for whatever they did or did not do. For example, instead of asking for forgiveness when you know that it wasn’t the reason you didn’t ask for forgiveness before or didn’t get it at all, you choose to blame the person who did not get his/her goal at the fault.

you start thinking that you are not worthy of some success in your dreams or dreams. Instead of fighting for your dreams and working hard, you start thinking everyone gives you a pat on the back and says “how dare you” or something like that. These thoughts create insecurity, so they start turning to people who make them jealous.

you start taking credit for certain achievements as proof that you deserve them and start wondering who did or didn’t do them. You can even question why the people who did achieve these things were able to achieve them and wonder who on earth was responsible for the accomplishment. You will always wonder who could have done these things.

you start questioning everything around you, including family and friends. You start questioning how things are supposed to be this way and why others can achieve them if they are not. You start wondering whether you are not capable to reach your goals. When you know someone has achieved something, you constantly compare them and wonder if they are good enough and worthwhile.

when you start wondering why the past or what happened in previous years cannot affect your dreams, you start building resentment towards those who achieved what you wanted. You start considering yourself as having failed and not getting anything done. Because you know that you have done nothing for all that time, things started changing.

you keep trying to achieve more and more and then there are so many reasons why you weren’t able to achieve it and why you should stop. You start becoming resentful of what someone else accomplished and start thinking that you are not worthy. You start thinking you are too old, or that you’re not as smart or talented, etc. You start wishing someone else had done more or that it had been easier for you than it turned out.

you stop reading books or magazines. You always read new news or start scrolling through social media but you stopped reading books or magazines. Maybe you started sleeping less so you won’t be able to get a lot of sleep.

you start keeping track of others. You put notes on everyone’s cell phones. You put pictures into everyone’s folders. Everything else you used to keep separate from everyone’s possessions. Remember, the past is gone, so anything left is just memories.

you stop thinking that anyone can do what you try to do or that nobody wants to hear your story because even the smallest of acts of kindness can make someone remember you. You might start thinking a large part of what you do isn’t important and you might start losing motivation and start giving fewer gifts every year.

You start missing meetings with colleagues — people that you share goals with. People who aren’t aligned with your vision might start looking down on you. At work, you might start wondering if it’s okay when somebody asks you to start planning your next project or if you are not respected as you used to be. You start acting annoyed all the time and don’t talk about what you were planning on doing.

you stop thinking that you are being selfish. You start putting people above yourself. You start wondering how you are not getting what you deserve and where all the gratitude from what people do not show. You start finding faults in everyone around you. People start questioning your judgment. It’s important to remember that your judgment is very limited.

you stop thinking about your dreams and start starting dreaming of ones that you want to do next. You get used to these images and start wondering how you got on them. You start worrying about people around you and start thinking that they are following your dream. You start wondering how you know your dreams are achievable. You start imagining dreams that do not exist and start questioning them more.

you start thinking your dreams are unattainable and start waiting until you think they will feel realistic and start thinking of different ways to accomplish them. You start waiting for different things to happen so that things can go on and you can get better at them. You start doing things you love like travel and self-improvement. You keep thinking of what comes after traveling and then start fantasizing about what you could do after. 

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July 09, 2022

The Perception of A Better Future

The Perception of A Better Future

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The Perception of A Better Future

What is the Perception of a Better Future and the definition of it and how we can make our future brighter and more secure for human life and suggestions on how to change your world for good? Here is what we know about this issue and what we should do with some help from simple tips, examples, articles, sources and a list of different projects and organizations. We’ll also have an explanation of why this topic matters.

What Is The Perception Of A Better Future And Why Should It Matter To You?

In theory, the perception of a “better future” is a general term that refers to what we consider essential, desirable qualities of life, in particular the social/economic, moral, spiritual, emotional, or psychological qualities of people (or organizations). Usually, this term has evolved into a very complex idea that extends outside to include cultural, political, religious, personal characteristics, ethical, etc., which are often overlooked when discussing social issues but become vital aspects of thinking about the future. This perception has been shaped by the development of new technologies and the spread of ideas, which have led to further expansion of society. As such, there must be some rules to apply in order to be able to think properly about this issue. Therefore, they are crucial for understanding the history of society, developing a new vision and developing a new model of life for everyone, regardless of their background. Although this distinction may seem clear today to many people, the main distinctions were made centuries ago and therefore are still relevant today, which serves as the basis for our current view of life, including the “best future,” as well as the foundation on which further developments can be built.

The Importance Of Attending College For Personal Development

A college education offers numerous valuable benefits to its participants, both economically and psychologically. However, even so, a college education is not free, just like it is not free anywhere else in the world, except at a high-cost university. In most cases, it remains affordable only because of high tuition. These fees are quite difficult to afford especially when you study at a large public university. There are other factors such as cost of living, family responsibilities and whether or not one has the means to pay tuition and room rent alone. If one does not want to leave home and travel while studying, a degree can provide access to all kinds of courses and a number of courses. The price tag of attending school is as much as $4,000! But let us look at another model — college plus a summer job. Compared to getting a two-year degree, that costs between $8,000 and $15,000 per year. An academic summer job could cost from $15,000 to $50,000 per year. This is true whether the person gets the full amount of scholarships of up to 30% to 60% and if the job can take three years at least. Now, comparing these models requires one more analysis, but I believe the former model offers too much. With every degree getting increasingly competitive and expensive, many would consider moving towards becoming a student and receiving a two-year degree. While the latter is more financially reasonable but less desirable, for some it may be preferable in terms of mental health and self-development. Let me give a concrete example.

The Problem Of Homelessness

Today, there are approximately 18 million homeless people around the globe, representing 15.5% of each world’s population (the United Nations 2018). According to UNDP reports, the prevalence and impact of homelessness have increased over the past twenty-five years. When you add the number of people dying each year due to homelessness in developing nations, the global figure is staggering. Homelessness has the potential to negatively affect almost any economy. From tourism to agriculture, to mining and shipping, homeless people depend on the hospitality industry for survival and their families for food security and social protection. Without adequate shelter for people experiencing homelessness, this industry becomes useless and the global economy suffers greatly. In fact, studies show that the economic impacts of homelessness are significantly greater than those who find sustainable housing. From a social perspective, experiencing homelessness is harmful to the dignity of the nation. Because those in need of basic human basic care are usually low-income earners and unemployed youth, this leads to negative societal consequences. Furthermore, poverty levels increase in response to the growing number of homeless individuals.

Why Do People Feel They Are Racist Towards Each Other?

Racist behaviour is an extremely serious matter that must be addressed at the highest level possible (not least in governmental authorities) and no less on an international level. Unfortunately, race, gender, sexual orientation, age, class, nationality, and any other factor you will probably deem important and worthy of consideration is perceived as a factor that makes someone evil. In other words, people are generally prejudiced against minorities, immigrants, the LGBT+ community, LGBTQ+ individuals, indigenous representatives, and women. So, what is wrong with that? Well, let’s start with how race and ethnicity are defined. Racism, ethnic bigotry and sexism will always be present in every culture. Indeed, racism can be shown throughout history, but as racist as it was in the early times of slavery.

Racism, ethnic bigotry and sexism can be seen, in some countries at least, everywhere, in every epoch, in every era and form, in every time, in every region of the planet, and indeed, throughout all of history, albeit in varying degrees. This is evident not only in modern times in various societies across the globe in varying degrees but also today, as societies continue to grow and evolve. One’s own country can display prejudice too, and this is where multiculturalism comes into play. Prejudice can be displayed through language barriers as well as various forms of discrimination. On one end of things, there are certain cultures that have a deep-rooted sense of superiority, and others, such as religion. Religion plays a part. As religions vary from society, in each culture they vary. On top of that, the beliefs of religious communities could also be contributing to prejudice. Regardless of the case, people have feelings of superiority due to common tradition, language barriers, and general beliefs, which are inherited or learned in life. Thus, people develop a generalized feeling of being superior, which can serve them throughout their entire lives.

Racism, ethnic bigotry and sexism can be seen, in some countries at least, everywhere, in every epoch, in every era and form, in every region of the planet, and indeed, throughout all of history, albeit in varying degrees. In other words, race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, age, class, nationality and any other factor you will probably deem worthy of consideration is perceived as being evil. Since some communities see themselves as inferior, they tend to hold stereotypes and prejudgments against certain groups of people. Discrimination takes place at work, school, in other areas of daily life, and even in the media.

This bias is particularly prevalent in minority communities, indigenous, LGBTQ+, and disabled groups. Perhaps, in comparison with larger groups in society, discrimination takes place more frequently within lower-income communities — specifically in Latin America, Africa, the Middle East, Asia, and Eastern Europe — but still, we often overlook prejudice within these groups. Often, they face prejudices that are similar and even worse than racial prejudice. Whether this is related to geography or demographic differences, people tend to understand prejudice differently. Understanding a prejudice can sometimes be as simple as knowing some facts about the subject and identifying a common belief; however, sometimes prejudice needs to be based on an individual’s experience and knowledge. For example, if a person knows nothing about disability, it could happen they may not understand prejudice against disability. Maybe the reason people have a problem understanding prejudice against disability is because of that.

In Conclusion, Despite the complexity of perceptions regarding life, each person and community will share the same general perception of themselves and others, though it may be unique to them. We cannot ignore that the perception of a better future, a healthy, happy, prosperous life, lies within every human being. All we need are tools that will assist in creating that “better life”. We need to create an environment where all people understand that better life. By doing so, we collectively build a strong bond that will enable us to come together and work toward achieving the best future for all of humanity. This article is dedicated to helping to build the perception of a better future, and I hope you will allow me to offer the following resources for building your vision and creating a better one! Keep sharing them with us, and to read more, please visit, click here. Until next time, keep being grateful!  

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July 01, 2022

The Garden of Sight Where We Want to be Hidden

The Garden of Sight Where We Want to be Hidden

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The Garden of Sight Where We Want to be Hidden

There is something in this world that has changed our way of living in the 21st century, and it's called 'The Garden of Sight' where we want to be hidden from others by using different kinds of techniques, some of which are old-fashioned as well as new. Our generation today is able to hide anything at their disposal, like money or time, in a manner that they believe is more secure than ever before. From buying drugs online, having someone else make the payment, and staying in an RV as opposed to living on a property you own in the city! I personally have spent countless hours of my life reading about this topic as I've never understood why people don't just keep their secrets inside the comfort of their homes. In other words, who doesn't want to spend less time trying to find love, and instead try to make the relationship last. However, we are now moving away from the idea that everyone needs to live according to certain standards to maintain their own happiness in this highly competitive world. As much as we may not think so, our actions are changing our society in many ways and with them is something very important to know.

The first element that I will be giving credit for being one of the reasons why many of us have started shifting towards creating the perfect partner is our education level. Many people have been teaching themselves to become more knowledgeable and aware of what's going on around them, making it easier to understand each other's behaviour and also learn to communicate with them better. Also, the number of resources available that we can use make understanding each other even easier. You can now know how to read someone else's emotions easily. Before this, maybe you were struggling and didn’t know how to properly communicate with an individual. I'm not alone in saying this, I was always struggling to understand people's emotions because most of the time I had to ask so many questions to get to know another individual. Now we are going beyond the understanding of emotions. This change was especially hard on me as someone that has never experienced a day job. Some people even get frustrated with me for putting myself through so much effort to start knowing more about this new thing. But I will say, I love learning about this trait. For a while, I wanted to become a flight attendant but after everything being said, you must have realized your passion was something others enjoyed as much as it is causing problems. So you decided to go deeper in this field by becoming a pilot. A profession that requires a lot of training and knowledge, which is rare to obtain. My point is, even though this new career may take some getting used to because your family doesn't support you, you still must follow a path that requires an immense amount of sacrifice and dedication. It's never easy to do something if you are just starting out. Although you might not have the means to afford these things, you will need to start looking into the possibilities within the industry. And here's where you get the best part; you are able to travel anywhere in the country with no financial barriers. With this, you can travel around the globe to explore destinations just as if you were travelling with the whole world on your side. Not only did you be able to experience different places, but you also began to meet different types of people, and it became a game-changer for every single one of them. People that were strangers became true friends who become family members. People that couldn't stand each other started to see eye to eye. No longer would there be a distance between us, our families, and our goals. Instead of feeling like strangers, we could start seeing each other all over again. I hope that this story made my new passion seem more realistic, but remember, it takes determination and action to succeed in anything. Because every little bit adds up as time goes on. And if you do this, no matter how scary a situation is, I guarantee the reward will multiply exponentially! That is when the real magic happens.

There is nothing quite like finding your match. It's so difficult when you are completely broke without anyone to talk with. Nothing brings us together as soon as you find someone who shares the same values with you as you do. You start to feel more connected to the rest of the world than ever before. When you have somebody you can relate to and trust, it feels like you have the power of taking control over your future. One major reason why most people start dating online is that social media apps allow you to connect directly with your significant other and also allow you to post about yourself and about yourself. With Facebook, there are numerous dating websites such as Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder. You can choose the ones that suit you best, according to your tastes, but these platforms also offer plenty of options. Whether it's dating, video chat, or virtual dates, you can find who you're looking for! Even in situations where you are separated from that person you are searching for, you can continue connecting with them online. Social networking sites have actually evolved to become a great tool in helping you find your ideal match. On Bumble, it offers a variety of people to choose from. If you aren't ready for that kind of convenience, then perhaps you should consider something like Viber. An instant messaging platform you could use for dating that can help you meet up with other people without the hassle of calling or texting anyone. Virtual date dates work just the same as dating through the internet. Just be careful with whom you choose to message and who you have your heart to meet. Because this feature gives you the ability to interact with numerous strangers through video calls even more than through emails. I personally have gone through it multiple times for dating! The quality is far above that of regular interaction with a loved one! While dating apps are not 100% reliable, they definitely give you more access to meet potential matches and a chance to speak with them if you do not have physical contact. With this, you never know what's going on around you and are often able to see who you are more often than before. The biggest advantage of having a crush on other people is being able to speak to that one for yourself. After speaking to your crush it's amazing, you can't help but wonder what happened to the beautiful person you were looking for or who your friend was before him/her. What do I mean? Maybe not, or maybe you had some sort of bad interaction with both of them. If there was anything I noticed in the latter half of 2020, it's that relationships that lasted longer than a couple of months are becoming extremely common across the nation. Why does it take such lengths to build up our feelings toward other people? Well, let me tell you some stories, all the while staying silent to the fact that we are constantly questioning what makes us attracted to certain people, or to certain qualities. Let's face it, sometimes our personality traits play a big factor in how we find others that we meet. Most of those who have personalities similar to mine do not have someone looking for the same type of connection as me. Sometimes you just end up meeting people that fit your personality to such a degree that it becomes almost too overwhelming for you to take on but not to the extent that it makes you question every decision you make. Another difference is that you may come across more emotionally compatible individuals than if you met me. These types of personalities are almost too strong for each other. You will encounter a person you have no chemistry with, whether in person or via video call. When it comes to this, it's even harder. You are able to create new bonds by talking to them in ways you never imagined just two months ago. I am sure that after spending thousands of dollars on dating websites, I still haven't met a person I admire as much as an attractive guy in person. My point is, that if you have a liking for someone you can't meet physically yet, you shouldn't let this hold you back from meeting them. Everyone is unique in a way, and it's impossible to understand your counterpart unless you meet him/her. There are plenty of successful singles just like me that didn't necessarily share my personality like I do, but did and have met someone similar to me that I'm incredibly proud of him/her. There is a reason people fall in love with other people, and it has nothing to do with the attraction they possess. Regardless of whether you fell in love with a person you cannot meet physically, you are more likely to fall in love with another person you believe shares your personality traits. Like I said earlier, the goal may be to find a certain type of romance but if you truly care about other people, you should do exactly that. Get to know that special someone like you and develop feelings as you go. They are worth it, and I promise you that you'll be glad that you made the effort to seek them out. Without further ado, let's begin.

The second piece of advice would be that of self-care. Self-care is the act of taking care away from ourselves in order to take care of others. Taking care of ourselves is essential for healthy relationships. Being responsible for ourselves is a way for us to protect ourselves from letting down our partners. Being responsible also keeps you safe from falling prey to unwanted romantic experiences. Here's my personal motto in regards to this subject. Give yourself permission to take care of yourself first! Take a break. Spend quality time with yourself. Do not ignore the beauty and healing properties of exercise! Exercise is not just about losing weight, nor is it about building muscle or keeping muscles fit. It's about being able to release toxins through sweat and digestive systems that you used to store.  

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June 30, 2022

Attraction, Romance, and Love

Attraction, Romance, and Love

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Attraction, Romance, and Love

Do you know about love? I think that it’s very important for a human being to love other people. In as much as we all have different types of Love, there are some which we find attractive, others not so attractive, but still others very beautiful. Love can be beautiful in many ways and it can become toxic when it doesn’t become an addiction like our habit of smoking or addiction.

As humans, we often feel insecure because we don't know ourselves and we don't know the next person who will enter this world with us. So, we try to make another person happy by giving them everything we’ve got. We even try to do that without worrying whether he/she’ll like it or not.

That is why attraction, romance and love should always stay intact.

Love does not exist on its own, rather it's something which exists between two people who are living life together. If there are any differences in personality in each partner then this Love cannot be called true love. But if both people are compatible with one another then we may call this love.

Some People Have More Than One Kind Of Love

To understand this better let me explain the difference between different kinds of love. The love we know as romantic Love is more romantic love than the love in which we can give the same level of affection to a friend rather than a loved one. These kinds of Love have different levels of intimacy and affection which people want, not just love.

Here is some example. You can learn about various kinds of true love, I am providing a simple explanation here.

There Are Different Levels Of Love In A Relationship

From my understanding, every relationship contains a different type of love. Here are some examples of the amount of love which each person has for their partner in relation to which category they belong to

They are in a loving relationship with each other and you are in a satisfying relationship with your partner. So, from this case, we can say that you have more intimate and emotional love for each other than in a satisfying relationship.

For Example: If you are in a deep-seated loving relationship with your partner then, you have almost at par love for him/her and you are satisfied with each other. As far as this category of love is concerned, you may call it this love.

Here is An Example From Which I Am Trying To Give Examples:

Your spouse who lives in your house does not support you financially. They give you less attention than you need which is love. Your mate who lives alone also does not give you money, love and attention. Hence, for that particular couple, it may not be really true love. They have love and affection only for getting away from each other while they themselves aren’t really ready to show it to each other. There are different kinds of love in them. That can be romantic love.

Romantic love is love, friendship and trust-based love which is a combination of those three types. This is what I mentioned above as romantic love.

Romance Love is the feeling of falling in love in this world with someone else and having that love for yourself. It consists of falling in love with someone you never met before in your lifetime. When you fall in love then you’d go through such stages:

You would get introduced to that someone.

You would see them in person and start seeing them.

You would meet your future partner and your love would change drastically.

Then the love and the dating would start.

They would start meeting others.

They would become friends again and start trying to get married to each other.

Then after some time, you would have to break up with the current partner. And there’re various reasons for breaking up. Because of whom, you are falling in love again, I would tell you.

Love and Friendship Are Very Similar Thing

Love is something which you can’t avoid falling in love with, whether for a long time or for a few years, or it may die down from heartbreak, disappointment, etc. As long as you do not follow love as a means of happiness, love can prove to be beautiful in the sense of great love but as a source of sorrow can be truly ugly. Hence, the best way to take from this bad thing is either to stop doing it completely or look for other alternative methods to solve this problem.

Let me give you an example. Two girls were going through a breakup for several years and that was the reason behind the breakup. One girl tried to solve the problem by moving to a new city where she could enjoy her newfound romance. The other girl decided to continue with the breakup and did nothing except stay in the place where she used to meet her ex-lover and started looking for another man.

Love in this scenario cannot work so well and I wouldn’t recommend it either.

On the Other Hand, Friendship Can Be Very Beautiful

Friends are amazing creatures in terms of finding the perfect match and bringing together a whole family for a common purpose. Friends can help the person involved in the relationship to develop personal qualities within their relationship. Friends also help in strengthening bonds as it helps increase mutual understanding for the sake of the two parties. Hence, if we talk about friendships as relationships, then friendship can help in making that bond stronger and not only stronger.

This makes you a friend or a brother to anyone. Let me give you a couple of examples.

Determine the main focus of love

In every relationship, there must be one focal point. You can choose between romantic love and friendship. Romantic love is more like love which gives you complete control over your life while friendship to share the burden of being responsible for each other. For such cases, friends may be the most appropriate option. With friends that will be able to share common goals and dreams. But as long as you don’t compromise with personal desires, then it’s time to move from romance love to friendship love.

In addition to romantic love, if you have to talk about real love then you can say that there are various forms of love available. You can even find out what love is in real life. Love can be full of heartbreak, passion, intimacy, honesty, gratitude, kindness, and many more. Whatever the form of love you feel in love you can feel it in all forms. Hence it’s important to know your emotions so that we can never lose that.

Love Is Not Just About Love But Also About Physical Appearance

When we come across our true love for someone we cannot feel love in any way apart from love itself. Our physical looks aren’t so important when we get the love for our partner, but rather love for them is. When we fall in love with another partner, we automatically assume that they are good-looking and sexy. If we have to know how attractive, handsome or beautiful he/she is physically then that is enough. However, we cannot know his/her character, his or her traits and even how reliable he or she is physical.

All beauty and good qualities cannot give us ultimate love. We can choose who and how we love. Sometimes we may be too attached to what the person is not just for love. Some other times we just want the love we feel for another. So no one is ever worth more than the other.

There Are Certain Things On Which We May Or May Not Belong

When we talk about love, we consider it an essential part of our relationships, but it shouldn’t ever be taken as completely true. Love doesn’t mean that you are in love with him/her every minute of every day. It can go beyond that aspect too.

Some parts are not essential to every person. We might not always be in a position to open the door of his/her heart to all of you, only some people would like to do so as well. And what’s important when dating another partner is the trustworthiness of the other person.

Love Should Always Remain Intimate Love

Love can be not just about falling in love with another person. Love takes care of being present even when one person isn’t around. So, the intimacy of love must always remain at the forefront. Love cannot turn into an obsession. Nowadays you can find online applications and apps as they allow you to connect with other people and know their thoughts and feelings.

But what can you learn from all the internet games, books, movies, and television shows? How to be around one another by sharing common interests, and understanding one another’s life. Most people today have changed their perspective on love to obsession and obsession. So it’s time for us to understand what love is and get rid of those who use dating as a ploy to make them fall in love with them.

Love is not always about having to spend a lot of time with our partner. At the end of the day, we come back home and start with our families. Therefore, it’s important to understand your loved ones and cherish them the way they deserve.

There are a certain number of things which are considered to be natural and healthy love. However, I’ve said many things on which the mind may tend to disagree or contradict as time passes by. Every day we learn certain lessons, I would advise.

The first lesson is that love isn’t just about romantic love, it is also real love, there are various varieties of love available in the world and love can sometimes be seen as a source of unhappiness and anguish in life.

The second lesson will teach us the third lesson which we might face now,  

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