The Garden of Sight Where We Want to be Hidden

There is something in this world that has changed our way of living in the 21st century, and it's called 'The Garden of Sight' where we want to be hidden from others by using different kinds of techniques, some of which are old-fashioned as well as new. Our generation today is able to hide anything at their disposal, like money or time, in a manner that they believe is more secure than ever before. From buying drugs online, having someone else make the payment, and staying in an RV as opposed to living on a property you own in the city! I personally have spent countless hours of my life reading about this topic as I've never understood why people don't just keep their secrets inside the comfort of their homes. In other words, who doesn't want to spend less time trying to find love, and instead try to make the relationship last. However, we are now moving away from the idea that everyone needs to live according to certain standards to maintain their own happiness in this highly competitive world. As much as we may not think so, our actions are changing our society in many ways and with them is something very important to know.

The first element that I will be giving credit for being one of the reasons why many of us have started shifting towards creating the perfect partner is our education level. Many people have been teaching themselves to become more knowledgeable and aware of what's going on around them, making it easier to understand each other's behaviour and also learn to communicate with them better. Also, the number of resources available that we can use make understanding each other even easier. You can now know how to read someone else's emotions easily. Before this, maybe you were struggling and didn’t know how to properly communicate with an individual. I'm not alone in saying this, I was always struggling to understand people's emotions because most of the time I had to ask so many questions to get to know another individual. Now we are going beyond the understanding of emotions. This change was especially hard on me as someone that has never experienced a day job. Some people even get frustrated with me for putting myself through so much effort to start knowing more about this new thing. But I will say, I love learning about this trait. For a while, I wanted to become a flight attendant but after everything being said, you must have realized your passion was something others enjoyed as much as it is causing problems. So you decided to go deeper in this field by becoming a pilot. A profession that requires a lot of training and knowledge, which is rare to obtain. My point is, even though this new career may take some getting used to because your family doesn't support you, you still must follow a path that requires an immense amount of sacrifice and dedication. It's never easy to do something if you are just starting out. Although you might not have the means to afford these things, you will need to start looking into the possibilities within the industry. And here's where you get the best part; you are able to travel anywhere in the country with no financial barriers. With this, you can travel around the globe to explore destinations just as if you were travelling with the whole world on your side. Not only did you be able to experience different places, but you also began to meet different types of people, and it became a game-changer for every single one of them. People that were strangers became true friends who become family members. People that couldn't stand each other started to see eye to eye. No longer would there be a distance between us, our families, and our goals. Instead of feeling like strangers, we could start seeing each other all over again. I hope that this story made my new passion seem more realistic, but remember, it takes determination and action to succeed in anything. Because every little bit adds up as time goes on. And if you do this, no matter how scary a situation is, I guarantee the reward will multiply exponentially! That is when the real magic happens.

There is nothing quite like finding your match. It's so difficult when you are completely broke without anyone to talk with. Nothing brings us together as soon as you find someone who shares the same values with you as you do. You start to feel more connected to the rest of the world than ever before. When you have somebody you can relate to and trust, it feels like you have the power of taking control over your future. One major reason why most people start dating online is that social media apps allow you to connect directly with your significant other and also allow you to post about yourself and about yourself. With Facebook, there are numerous dating websites such as Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder. You can choose the ones that suit you best, according to your tastes, but these platforms also offer plenty of options. Whether it's dating, video chat, or virtual dates, you can find who you're looking for! Even in situations where you are separated from that person you are searching for, you can continue connecting with them online. Social networking sites have actually evolved to become a great tool in helping you find your ideal match. On Bumble, it offers a variety of people to choose from. If you aren't ready for that kind of convenience, then perhaps you should consider something like Viber. An instant messaging platform you could use for dating that can help you meet up with other people without the hassle of calling or texting anyone. Virtual date dates work just the same as dating through the internet. Just be careful with whom you choose to message and who you have your heart to meet. Because this feature gives you the ability to interact with numerous strangers through video calls even more than through emails. I personally have gone through it multiple times for dating! The quality is far above that of regular interaction with a loved one! While dating apps are not 100% reliable, they definitely give you more access to meet potential matches and a chance to speak with them if you do not have physical contact. With this, you never know what's going on around you and are often able to see who you are more often than before. The biggest advantage of having a crush on other people is being able to speak to that one for yourself. After speaking to your crush it's amazing, you can't help but wonder what happened to the beautiful person you were looking for or who your friend was before him/her. What do I mean? Maybe not, or maybe you had some sort of bad interaction with both of them. If there was anything I noticed in the latter half of 2020, it's that relationships that lasted longer than a couple of months are becoming extremely common across the nation. Why does it take such lengths to build up our feelings toward other people? Well, let me tell you some stories, all the while staying silent to the fact that we are constantly questioning what makes us attracted to certain people, or to certain qualities. Let's face it, sometimes our personality traits play a big factor in how we find others that we meet. Most of those who have personalities similar to mine do not have someone looking for the same type of connection as me. Sometimes you just end up meeting people that fit your personality to such a degree that it becomes almost too overwhelming for you to take on but not to the extent that it makes you question every decision you make. Another difference is that you may come across more emotionally compatible individuals than if you met me. These types of personalities are almost too strong for each other. You will encounter a person you have no chemistry with, whether in person or via video call. When it comes to this, it's even harder. You are able to create new bonds by talking to them in ways you never imagined just two months ago. I am sure that after spending thousands of dollars on dating websites, I still haven't met a person I admire as much as an attractive guy in person. My point is, that if you have a liking for someone you can't meet physically yet, you shouldn't let this hold you back from meeting them. Everyone is unique in a way, and it's impossible to understand your counterpart unless you meet him/her. There are plenty of successful singles just like me that didn't necessarily share my personality like I do, but did and have met someone similar to me that I'm incredibly proud of him/her. There is a reason people fall in love with other people, and it has nothing to do with the attraction they possess. Regardless of whether you fell in love with a person you cannot meet physically, you are more likely to fall in love with another person you believe shares your personality traits. Like I said earlier, the goal may be to find a certain type of romance but if you truly care about other people, you should do exactly that. Get to know that special someone like you and develop feelings as you go. They are worth it, and I promise you that you'll be glad that you made the effort to seek them out. Without further ado, let's begin.

The second piece of advice would be that of self-care. Self-care is the act of taking care away from ourselves in order to take care of others. Taking care of ourselves is essential for healthy relationships. Being responsible for ourselves is a way for us to protect ourselves from letting down our partners. Being responsible also keeps you safe from falling prey to unwanted romantic experiences. Here's my personal motto in regards to this subject. Give yourself permission to take care of yourself first! Take a break. Spend quality time with yourself. Do not ignore the beauty and healing properties of exercise! Exercise is not just about losing weight, nor is it about building muscle or keeping muscles fit. It's about being able to release toxins through sweat and digestive systems that you used to store.